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Everyday behavior differs for each of us. There are people who constantly smile and there are people who spend most of their time angry and dissatisfied. For this reason there is a certain empathy so that people can solve problems together and be able to put themselves in another’s situation. In the case of such empathy one person can give another positive energy, but did you know that there is also a way for one person to drain energy from another? Negative people drain your life energy.
Negativity
Everyone knows well that there are certain situations that appear as problems and complicate our lives. A person who is generally kind and positive then becomes sad and irritable because of these events and thus emits negative energy.
You can help such a person precisely thanks to empathy.
But among us there are also those who live more or less constantly with their negativity and no matter how hard you try, their mood does not improve for long and they, with their complaining approach to problems, drain energy from their surroundings.
Effect of a negative person
We often do not realize it at all, but a negative person can have a big influence on us. Most people talk about their problems to gain support and thereby get help. Then there are people who talk about their problems constantly and in a certain way throw their problems onto the people around them. At that moment we should be on guard, because if that person’s problem becomes our problem, even just because it begins to bother us as well, because such people are negative and harmful. These people will impose their feelings on you and thereby influence you.
Plug your ears
There is no problem in listening to another person’s problems, but if it is a person who sees everything in life as a problem, rather don’t listen to them. You will do the best for yourself if you avoid this person. It is no longer just a problem, but a very strong negative energy that the person will pass on to you. A discussion with this person has no purpose and you will feel drained and tired.
Solution
Almost every problem has some solution. The people we warn you about, however, do not solve their problems; they only constantly repeat them but do not act. You will spend a lot of energy trying to advise such a person, but they do not need the advice, they simply will not take action. They will only constantly repeat these problems to you and pass on negative energy. It will not be long before you feel the same as that person.
How to talk to such a person?
The first rule is to keep your distance from this person. If you do not stay away from that person, they will catch you and your energy. Avoid situations when you are alone.
The second rule is not to show such a person your weakness. Sometimes the person does not even know about it themselves, but they can be perfect manipulators. Therefore it is necessary to maintain clear boundaries of what they can discuss with you and to what depth.
If the person crosses your boundary, do not be afraid and end the conversation immediately. Only then will you escape the draining and show the person that they have gone too far.
