Discovering that your partner was unfaithful can turn your life upside down. It depends on each individual how they can cope with infidelity, but it is always better to prevent it; although there is no proven recipe to stop infidelity.
What reasons do men over 30 most often have for infidelity?
If one of the partners wants to cheat on the other, they will do it, even if you stood on your head. According to psychologists, there are several reasons and situations that increase the risk of infidelity.
1) Identity crisis
Almost everyone has heard of a midlife crisis, but this crisis can come at any age; it doesn’t matter whether a person is 20 or 60. The term simply means that someone is searching for a new meaning in life or some excitement that will pull them out of their gray everyday life.
If you see signs of this crisis in your man, try to come up with something new that you could do together. Or push yourself and get involved in some way in the things he likes.
2) It’s nature
You may have heard from a man who is a chronic womanizer the excuse that it’s nature. That there are very few species on the planet that choose only one partner for life. Many also claim that there are more men than women on the planet, so it makes sense for a man to have multiple partners (mistresses).
3) Plain boredom
Men are physical beings and for a fulfilling life they constantly need to seek new excitement and challenges. Therefore it is necessary to stimulate them occasionally with a game of cat and mouse, and thus keep them on their toes, especially in the area of their love life. You certainly should not give up on love games. Try new positions, surprise him with sexy lingerie.
4) Feelings of inadequacy
Everyone wants to feel interesting, loved, adored. Even men who do not show it much. If you do not show interest in him, you signal to him that he is no longer as great to you as he once was. You will awaken in him feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, fears, which he deals with by finding a mistress. Don’t let it go that far.
5) He lacks a sense of purpose
At a certain age a man usually feels the obligation to provide for himself and possibly his family. This can undermine his lifelong dreams, because a stable and lucrative job may not be very fun. The man feels unfulfilled, even depressed, so he reaches for a diversion in the form of a mistress.
6) A different view of infidelity
Each person understands the definition of infidelity differently. Where you have a boundary, he may not have it at all. Flirting on social networks, text messages, dinners, hugging, kissing — these are just some of the things on which partners may have a different opinion. You should always set these boundaries in advance.
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