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Women must handle their words more carefully, because men react to everything. Randomly uttered phrases and sentences can shake a man’s confidence. There are many sentences that women often repeat without realizing that they hurt their beloved partner. Aggressive phrases that men don’t easily swallow:
“You could’ve figured it out yourself!”
And how? He’s not a telepath, he’s a man. Don’t demand the impossible. Women will save men a lot of time and nerves if they learn to say directly what they need and what they want.
“Alright, next time I’ll do it myself.”
When you say this phrase, then you will really have to do everything yourself. You totally kill a man’s confidence and convince him that he is incapable.
“We need to talk.”
This is a phrase that is truly alarming and you should try to avoid it completely. Instead, talk to the man directly, feel free to tell him what the problem is.
“Clean up after yourself! I’m not your mother.”
It’s not exactly the best way to get a man to clean. Skip this phrase and instead hint to him that he shouldn’t expect you to do everything for him.
“Be a man!”
And who is he then, if not a man? Does this phrase mean that you doubt his manhood and devalue it? When a man hears it, he realizes that he is a man, the breadwinner and protector, but you don’t see it in him.
“Why do you keep going out with your friends when you have me?”
The fact that he married you or lives with you doesn’t mean he should forget other people. He also has friends, work and hobbies. It’s possible that the more restrictions you create, the less he will love you.
“Do you think she’s pretty?”
What are men supposed to answer so as not to upset their woman? Either they lie or they say she’s pretty and their girlfriend/wife gets angry. Such a question points to your insecurity.
“Oh, you’ve gained weight!”
Not only women are sensitive to comments about figure and appearance, but men are too. It’s better to start exercising with him or cook healthy food. Avoid unpleasant phrases regarding the body
If you want to have a healthy relationship, try to avoid these phrases. You wouldn’t like it either if your man said something similar to you.
