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I wish women could hear my psychologist’s conversations with married men. We discuss all the stereotypes and clichés that women have about us.
Just a touch is enough
A few don’t want to offend you. They don’t want to argue. They don’t want to control everything. And they definitely don’t want „just sex“.
They desperately want their wife to know the truth. And they are deeply pained at the thought that she may never know this truth.
And the truth lies in a gentle touch. It contains a power that many wives neglect or have yet to discover. It’s so simple and so tender that men are even afraid to ask for it. We hardly talk about it together! We don’t want to seem tender. We don’t want to risk a woman’s reaction to our weakness.
What is it?
It is the power of a gentle skin-to-skin touch as a sign of a woman’s acceptance and consent.
When a woman gently touches a man, it awakens his confidence, his world immediately changes.
It’s such a powerful moment that we can’t even say anything.
What do men say?
Like a lump in the throat, but it’s such a certainty that we’re not alone, that we’re on the right path. It’s a feeling of a woman’s love, if you will.
I’m sure everyone wants to feel that. It’s simple – a woman’s acceptance and approval. Nothing more.
This is how men describe it: „We were watching a movie when he put his hand on my knee, looked at me, smiled and said:„ I’m glad you brought us here, thank you. “
