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Psychologist and beautiful woman Lilia Achremčik wrote an appeal for all men who must read it, and also for those to whom it does not directly apply.
Over 40 years of her life she experienced both positive and negative experiences. Unfortunately, she has met many representatives of the stronger sex, but not all were worthy of the title “man”.
Here’s what you should know:
Lately I get terribly bored as soon as I start talking to any man. Sometimes you are so stupid that it’s possible to predict what you will do or say.
Yes, to be honest, I have received many proposals for sex so far. However, I never understood why men think that such a proposal should impress me, especially when the man in question is not attractive at all?
When you go through certain stages of your life, you most likely already know what such situations look like and they don’t surprise you at all. Besides, I know very well how some events can be a real disappointment.
You say something, then you disappear, and it becomes a vicious circle
Nothing new, everything goes according to your script. Men, do you realize that such behavior is easily predictable?
Cafés, restaurants … You invite me to play pool or to an exhibition. I understand very well what this is about. But do it in a way that makes sense.
From the first minute prove to me that you value me. It’s your attitude that makes you unique.
As a psychologist I understand that instinct prevails over reason. There are too many primitive people on this planet who behave like primitive animals. Fortunately there are also educated people with class and charm. But there are few of them, damn few!
I don’t need to flirt. I often hear: “Let’s get to know each other better!”
How, exactly?
Maybe you’ll read me an excerpt from Shakespeare to make yourself out to be a romantic prince who conquers my heart.
Do you really want to know what attracts me to men? Intelligence! Do you hear? INTELLIGENCE!
In my 40s I’m no longer interested in how big your belly or any other part of your body is… I’m more interested in what I can talk to you about.
If you really want to surprise me, impress me with your humanity. I understand very well that your first thought is: “Interesting, what she might be like in bed!”
But wait! You have a brain, right?
Turn it on and try to see in me a person who is your equal, not just a sexual object. Be sensitive.
I’ve been through a lot and learned a lot. I can become your source of inspiration, calm, and warmth. But you should be smart enough to be able to find the hidden treasure in me.
It’s sad to look back on life and realize that the thing I had least in it was love. Even if I meet it again, I will feel it completely differently. It is never the same, and never, understand NEVER, will it bore you.
If you cannot offer me this, please do not waste either your or my time. “
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