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Many women worry that they still haven’t met their true love. Experts advise not to panic and to leave stress behind.
True love comes after the age of 27
Get the idea out of your head that you might end up an old spinster. According to a study conducted at a London university, true love comes after the age of 27.
So women at that age shouldn’t panic right away. They will surely find the perfect life partner soon. That’s how it works!
Michael Trick, before he became a professor of production management at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, was a student and dreamed of love.
Brilliant idea
One day he had a brilliant idea: romantic dating is nothing more than an optimal stopping problem! Without thinking he did some calculations.
Trick assumed that his search for a wife would last from 18 to 40 years; based on the 37% rule, he had to start choosing from the age of 26.1 years.
That means that at first you go on dates with men or women, but you don’t take it seriously.
You gain life experience and plan to settle down no later than by 35.
Of course, it can happen earlier too
Well, theoretically it is assumed that you do not consider the first 37% of “candidates” suitable for marriage. Then a guy, a suitor for your hand and heart, or a woman, a candidate for the role of wife, will enter your life.
According to the calculations, a modern woman will experience plus or minus 11 relationships in her lifetime. You will reject the first four (37%) and go for the fifth. This is the “mathematics of love.”
Have doubts? Do you insist that a woman can meet a normal young man at age 20 and marry him? Maybe, but that’s not the point.
The life of modern women is somewhat more complicated than the life of their grandmothers
First they try to build their career, and only then family life.
The problem is that a 20-year-old woman knows very little about herself, her goals and dreams. If a woman has experience with 3-4 long-term relationships, she will most likely have time during this period to form herself and become aware of herself in that role. Her lifestyle will become more settled and she will understand what she wants to do.
She will understand what kind of relationship she needs and what type of person suits her. Therefore you should not rush into marriage. The ideal age for it is after the age of 27.
