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Recognizing when a relationship stops working and when your partner really isn’t worth it can be very difficult. We often don’t realize that the person we love is not treating us properly, and so we stay in such a relationship much longer than we should.
Today we bring you warning signs you should not ignore. If your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, it’s time to seriously consider whether to stay in the relationship.
Warning signs that you should get rid of your partner:
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Blames you for all his failures.
He pins every setback he goes through on you. You constantly feel like you are the cause of his problems. -
Chats with other women, even meets up with them.
If your partner maintains intimate contact with other women, whether online or in person, it is not a good sign for the relationship. -
Restricts you in your interests.
He tries to forbid you from things you like, controls your time and activities, and tries to pull you away from things that fulfill you. -
Treats your loved ones roughly.
If he behaves hostilely or contemptuously toward your friends and family, it may be a sign that he doesn’t respect you either. -
Shows your intimate photos to others.
Sharing private photos without your consent is a gross violation of trust and boundaries. -
Is capable of using physical violence.
Any hint of physical violence is an immediate reason to end the relationship. No one has the right to lay a hand on you. -
Lies to you even about trivial matters.
Repeated lying, even about small things, indicates a lack of trust and honesty in the relationship. -
Humiliates you in front of other people.
If your partner publicly mocks or devalues you, it should be a clear signal that he doesn’t respect you. -
Doesn’t trust you.
Constant distrust and accusing you of things you haven’t done is unhealthy for any relationship. -
Keeps reminding you of your mistakes and past.
Your partner should be the one who supports you, not the one who constantly brings up your errors. -
Doesn’t like to deal with problems in the relationship.
Ignoring problems and being unwilling to address them is a sign that your partner has no interest in improving the relationship. -
Can’t support you, isn’t there for you in hard times.
In difficult times your partner should be your support, not someone who pulls away. -
Frequently consumes alcohol or drugs.
Excessive consumption of alcohol or drugs can negatively affect not only his behavior but also your relationship. -
Takes advantage of you.
If you feel that your partner is exploiting your kindness and selflessness, it is a clear warning sign. -
Puts everything before you.
If he constantly prioritizes everything else—work, friends, hobbies—over you, you deserve someone who will put you first. -
Is unable to appreciate you and doesn’t value you.
A relationship should be about mutual respect and appreciation. If you don’t feel valued, it’s a sign that this relationship is not healthy.
It’s time to say enough is enough
If more of these warning signs are present in your relationship, it’s time to realize that you deserve someone who will respect, support, and love you as you deserve.
